Happy Hump day !!

The Black Man !!! you gotta love 'em..right ladies..no matter what they do , or what they did nothing is better than a black man , here's my pick of the week , i will start posting my eyecandy on hump day (wed) just for a little pick me up to get me ready for the rest of the week , yes i am still celibate but thats ok, i have my 'puter and my pix lol...
confessions of a fed up baby mama ...wow that post got me so many emails and responses on things i should do, thanks for all the support , he did finally send money this month it was deposited yesterday, so since its almost February is this money for jan or feb ?? damn...i really cant win for losing ,well like i said you gotta love the Black Man huh ??

random thoughts ....

There were two stories in the news yesterday that are still lingering through my mind…the birth of eight babies and the death of a family of seven.One led the news this morning.The other moved quickly from breaking news.Eight babies were born to one mother at the Kaiser Permanente in Los Angeles,California. Mother and multiples are doing well.Seven people…an entire family…were found dead after an apparent murder-suicide in California. notes left by the daddy that he and his wife had recently been terminated from positions as medical technicians at a Kaiser Permanente hospital in West Los Angeles. I can’t help but wonder at the strange connection…"kaiser", i know it has nothing to do with each other but 7 killed , 8 born just wondering ...see popsquotes.blogspot.com for picture of the family that was killed if you want, thanks B for the post. such a sad story ,

free bumper sticker..1 week left

Hey There,
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Happy Inauguration!
[ Lavish Taylor]

Obamaholics !!!

Okay Ya'll , yes i am officially an Obamaholic, and it feels good..I've been trying to keep blog very personal u know the whole mind, body, soul thing reinventing "sista's" and all. However like you i too am on Obama watch 24/7.. If you havent heard the Ty inc. just came out with these dolls (pictured above) sweet sasha & marvelous malia ..Ty inc. which put the dolls out this month had this to say ... There's nothing on the dolls that refers to the Obama girls,”. “It would not be fair to say they are exact replications of these girls. They are not.” But Michelle isnt buying it, i "aint either !!! stay tuned -Lav

cant forget the eye candy ladies...

this weeks eye candy .. hmmmm

D.C was awesome !!!

I went to D.C ...It was all i hoped for and even more . we left our hotel which was in Baltimore,MD at 2:00 am which was (11pm) california time..we met with uncle george who picked us up at the airport we all rode in to washington together which took about 30 mins , we waited in long lines, we pushed, shoved , sang ,chanted obama, obama...Yes we can...yes we can ..we danced and met people all over the world ..Everyone was friendly, all walks of life , it truly was a life changing event..i was in excruciating pain because of the cold, it was cold and hard it felt like needles sticking in my fingers my back, i had on thermos, jeans , boots scarf & hat , long wool coat, with a hood , i have frost bite on my face..i felt totally defeated , but i was front & center during the parade and got to look in Pres Obama's face to see him smile , and to see Malia upclose and personal , i didnt see michelle or sasha they were on the other side ...My cousin text me during this most exhausting day and said "how does it feel to be a part of history ? It felt good...damn good , i would do it all again in a heartbeat

confessions of a.......fed up "baby mama"

I wasn't sure if i was going to post this or not , because I'm trying to be on some real positive ish for 2009...so I'm a single Mom, not one who cries or complains about it.. maybe because i was raised in a single parent household, and life was good ...in other ways i am not bitter, or atleast i thought i wasn't lol... i get no child support whatsoever !!! none, zip, zero stingy with dinero !! every blue moon he will deposit $100 in my checking acct well he did two times in 2008, and $300 for Christmas '08..My mom says this is an insult and she wouldn't accept it , but i do and i spend every dime on my son..so this year with the economy and all i have asked this man to please send $$ every month anything he could he said yes ...i have text him a total of seven times this year ouch , but he has done nothing ..its cool i wont ask anymore i will continue to take care of our son as i have been ..but here's the kicker , i get a text message from him and he is telling me to look at this video on youtube...i look at the video and imagine the shock & horror when all i see is him surrounded by stacks of money, gold , bling on his pinkies and on his neck , clothes , shoes, cars ..white women err' where...Life is good for him !! I'm not asking for anything else !! finally I'm a "fed up baby mama"

I'm Back....

eye candy of the week...

U there ?? I hope so cause that means u made it back to visit ..So far all is well, new week means new things for lav...so far i have lost 2lbs yeahhh...i will post once a week on weight loss progress..havent actually started working out yet (yikes) but i have been watching what i have been eating and drinking tons of h2o..will actually start my workout this week..normally the Lil Guy & myself will go out a few times a week to eat so far i have been eating at home yeahhhhh...this is huge for us ..now for the finance , nothing major there but saving money because eating at home helps . I hope everything is good on your end , remember if you have tips do share..I am really trying to make this my "Best life ever" thanks Oprah...

charlie murphy spotted in vegas

Hey Ya'll ...my motto for 2009 mental, physical , spiritual ...oh & this just added financial lets cover these 4 things for the year to cover all our bases. Imagine this as a baseball diamond and we need to cover the bases and make it home, lets share ideas for building a better us..starting now 1,2,3 lets go .....(more to come)

the photo above is me with Charlie Murphy i met him in vegas over the summer ..wanted to share actually i am just learning how to posts pix and what not , so just pulled this one from my pc hope you enjoy its a little dark it was taken with a camera phone lmao

enjoy your weekend,

Hustle hard ?? hardly hustle ?? -u decide , Lav