Tuesday, February 2, 2010

Are you worth it ??

Years Ago , someone told me "when i finally realized what i was worth" i would love myself enough to let go of a "bad" relationship!! i finally realized who i was and my worth, and have kept it pushing..I was just recently able to return to favor and tell someone else the same exact words that still ring in my ear to this day...realizing your worth , loving yourself enough to let go a man who clearly gives a shit about you.. Why we stay ?? a number of reasons , i could go on forever with why we stay, the reason is what can make us finally leave. We know that in our hearts that we deserve better, but we continue to hold on anyway. Maybe we are afraid that we can’t do better. Maybe we are so in love that we just can’t see things for what they are. Or maybe we don’t love ourselves enough to realize that we don’t have to allow anyone to chip away at our soul or allow anyone to hurt us to the core.
I have experienced both ends of the spectrum when it comes to love. I know what if feels like to truly love a man and the love is not reciprocated. I know what it feels like to truly love a man and the man truly loves me back. Ladies, realize your worth and keep it pushing if you know you are in a dead end relationship, Sometimes we have to break our own hearts , to do better ..

4 comments:

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The Real Mochahontas said...

wow family i totally forgot about certain things in the midst of all the moving and business preps. you are certainly correct and your post is beautifully written. Hopefully this inspires someone to view themself in a different light too. either way today is the first day of the rest of your life and big business coming into play. no time for bs. FUCKLOVE. lol/ j/k.

Lavish said...

thanks @Tammy.... & @ Lil'Velvet thanks family, we really need to take some pix in our t'shirts that would be a great story to tell lol

Anonymous said...

Hell to the Yeah-zell, you ALL are worth it!!! Know your worth and do not settle!! Do bad by yourself!!! One of my fac blogs by Lav!!!!